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I feel like I was the chosen one after reading so much on this past week like someone wanted to hurt me badly. Like I was just a body breathing. Went into hospital 2x for that the other times I was at home or at my moms house in Florida and she just thought I was tired from the drive.

A man named Raymond Scott sorcerer I reached out to this week said I had Demons in me and he said he git rid of them but I still feel the same. Another person I reached out to said my house needs to be cleansed. I also have a rash on areas of my body. Help me if you can or get someone who can help me. Seems to me you need to learn how to protect your field, command your power back and create and honor clear boundaries.

YOu are fully workign in fear and that will attact only more fear. We ALL have free will and when we give that to others things begin to unravel. Hope you find you way. Take your medicine too. Avoid alcohol and do the grounding energy work. Too much time around things like power lines, electronic devices etc can also effect sensitive people. Ok and please see a counselor about your trauma.

When sensitive people are ungrounded sometimes trauma can be leaked through as fear based entities. The demonic forces have been dealt with they do not hold spiritual power over anyone. It is your mind that is concerned. Your unconcious mind is asking you to heal from fear. Now a few years ago yes there were some sorcerers who were taken by entities but that is no more.

So you can play with your mind no need for a sorcerer to do it. A healer yes but you can cleanse your own environment. Nice green pot plants in your home. A fish tank. Good meditative habits. Clean air and sunlight. Plus the usual things like white sage, eucalyptus oil etc. When you do master this…and you will.. And you see that ball of light under your ribs? It spreads in your entire being and gets stronger every day. Out of curiosity, have you contacted your Spirit Guide. My guide, is actually my eternal husband, who reincarnated just to be my guide.

I happen to be psychic, and he protects me on a daily basis from nasty things like what are bothering you. This should work, if not, then honestly but hopefully not it could very well be your guide playing tricks on you… but it sounds too malevolent to be a guide, they do however play tricks, so be clear when you call out to them that you NEED their HELP and to not play any trickery! It sounds like this guy was into some bad stuff… witchcraft or voodoo. It opens the door for all kinds of spooky energy to come through. Think of the scary stuff as an energetic message.

The spooky stuff is your invitation to go farther into the light. Visualize light entering you over and over until you start feeling peaceful, even if it takes an hour. Do this as many times a day or night as you need. Over time the light will push this stuff out and away from you. If you can find some trusted elders, a shaman or even a priest to help you get on top of this than do so. Actually John of God from Brazil comes to mind. I remember when people kept telling me the light is stronger than darkness… but it was like dumping a pail of water on a raging fire.

The goal is to bring in enough light to neutralize the negative energy. Many, many blessings. I experience majority of all does symptoms myself, it all started after i helped one of my family member with panic attacks ,she was cured the mext day idk what i absorbed but after that day i felt fear beyond what i could have ever thought possible one way i got rid of it was listening to that positive whispering voice telling me this needs to happen it will leave eventually idk if it was a an energy or a subcouncious fear i ignore for years but i faced it and said fuck it ill embrace it even if it feels horrible.

And realize that your physica body has its own mind made for survival you cant mistake it for your own the less you Take serious the more silent it gets also look for something that maybe you did before everything happen is there an addiction i need to adress and fast too that help so much. When one learns to work without ego — they do not choose to take anothers pain, sickness or disease.

Taking is conditional. Be very careful and learn boundaries if you choose! Pm me teripatterson gmail. They will even put up rainbows and heart clouds. Divine healing. I went through this whole thing and was hit by the right hand of the lord. God wants you to experience him. Anointings are real. I pray that you find Jesus or someone to guide you.

In Jesus name. Bless them lord and show them the light. Thank you Jesus. Telling someone that they have to find one particular package is limiting and personally I do not think we have the right to tell another how to do anything…. Oh my I have to say a sense of self. Is the first thing that comes to mind. I thought it was more heart breaking loss.

It was always negative energy from birth. I have a sister that I asked to never contact me again unless she could tell me one thing she has ever done or said nice to me. That sounds obsurd but it the truth. I honestly feel a since of relief. My heart has ached and my soul has weeped. I seem to even draw bottom feeders. But true. I have always known love is the key to life. Thank God. I believe first you have to find a way to let go of that fear. Negative energy survives off your fear, thats how it eats. Find a way to become fearless! What do you believe in?

God, Angels, what because you nd to ask them to help protect you until you become strong enough on your own. Dont worry there is a end to this but its your choice if it is good or bad. Dark things like to attach to light it sounds as if someone done bad to you sound as if what entitey was with him attach to you and even when you get rid of it there may be a resend that remains take sage and sage your house clock wise every room anything he gave you get rid of it as it can be cursed.

As for black outs I use to have them because use have dark entitys in me as well as light sure there still there also have higher self and ancient things in me at times I feel as I have no control as if something ancient take over but not in bad way as it give advice word of wisdom and try help out the others stuff there to protect me take Salt and lime your house with it after doing sage out a crystal in salt water on wendow seal to bathe in moon and sunlight then pull out set where you feel darkness then again repete crystals obsorbe energy. I too live in Florida so funny that you were not state away from me at one time oh and light lot white candles and Invision it shooting Ray white light to protect you pray to what ever you pray to to bless the candle with protection.

And watch your emotions they can become gateways. Once I got depress it felt like this title wave of black energy wash over everything then next i knew had lot dark entitys. Then at 1 point try get rid of it using white candles and my individual power that was when I did it at same time white light beam from Earth to sky which I found out later through Facebook and ex showing me which was strange was at same time.

But do those things that should help my name is Nickolas Dimitri Santiago if you ever need someone to talk to you can find me on Facebook hope things get better for you. Words are vibration vibration is energy what you speak come into existence so speak blessings on self and others never curse. That is a lot of techniques you are offering here which is fine as it seems to be your truth — however there is anotehr way that is much easier and taht is all about INTENTION.

Intent is The reason why all these technniques work for you is because you choose to believe in them — that said that is cool if it is your truth but I want Danielle to know that technique is not necessarily the answer as much as the INTENT behind it. Choose to work in love verses fear. Wow I feel the same way as she does:. My lights are even flickering. Please help I hate feeling anxious. Trincaj yahoo. I would contintue to ground and bubble as that really helps to stay focused, protected, grounded and gives you the skill to discern.

I have a free meditation on the homepage of my site for this if interested. Do it daily, and before bed too if you choose! I wanted to ask you regarding the visual phenomena, I see the visual snow and squiggles, sparks in my peripheral vision. On a couple of occasions I had a bright white-blue light appear in front of my eyes and know this is a process of me learning how to heal others. Also when I look directly at a loght source they change completely, the hazel-gold around my iris takes over, enveloping the green parts, kinda scary and unnatural looking.

So I am curious as to what this means, which brings me here. Another thing worth mentioning is that I am one of those people who has the positive and negative aspect of the universe within me. Oh my Marcin — the amazing thing about this post is its timing and subject matter…. My color has always been complete deep dark brouwn and they are all crazy now — completely different inside and aroudn the iris and they continue to change each year more and more.

I know it is due to the light I am holding within and I am not too concerned but super amazed. Reason they are peripheral is our ego is out of the way — so I sometimes do purposeful meditation to connect head on with them to study it further. Wow, I just searched out this site bc my eyes also look different from normal difficult to describe — brighter? I just noticed the other day.. I feel like im on rollerskates going downhill!

Love and Light! I was told by a seer to took at the visual snow and imagine that its inside me too, and if I see the astral light then to imagine its inside my heart. Can I ask you Suzanne about some other meditation techinques regarding this? I try not to make it all a real big deal…. After my awakening… I see orbs sparkles lines I saw a huge purple one flash in front of my eyes.

I see what looks like heat waves kinda outside in the air. I see clear dots everywhere outside too. I also have visions and see colors when I close my eyes. I see auras now. I had so many experiences happen quickly it was a lot. I thought I was crazy. I see lines like tally marks too.. I see these things every day now. I saw part of my dream on the wall one night too! I too was very scared, still am. By then I was ready to fight somebody or something. I prayed for a long period of time.

I would not come out of my room til I felt safe and the wierd energy was gone. It feels almost like powers. I lost my hair, which will grow back. I would never believe all this had it not happened to me. I was thinking I was literally going to have to be committed to a Krazy house. My doctor diagnosed me with bi polar and schitzophrenia.

Tried to turn me into a zombue with lithium. All I ever heard all my life was that I was Krazy. Since 3 yrs old. I have literally found my purpose in life, which I truly never thought would ever happen. I was pulled into the nonsense thru guides. Something or someone was telling guiding me to each step of knowledge. My experience was a lil scary because I felt like I was torn between 2 choices, Illuminati and God.

I was so confused, and going thru so much I felt like I wanted the easy way out. My daughter said how?? It just puts you right back and the start line. I got numbness. As I started chanting then the symptoms reduced. Please guide and help me Gratitude to you. Lots of times when we are half in and half out of body in dream state or in meditative state it can feel this way — I suggest always to breathe deeply and ground and protect yourself when this happens — extend the bubble of protection throughout your space and command that which is only for you HIGHEST and BEST GOOD is allowed to stay — nothing else.

Boom, fear dissolved and i drifted off to sleep as the figures came close and soften as if that statement disarmed them and myself…. But it blasted my world apart, I experienced a full kundalini awakening followed by weeks of indescribable bliss while I watched the world around me radiating light from everything living, everything. Everything is love and light. Be curious, be yourself and I know you will find the answers you so desperately seek. Hello Susan I am very glad I found your article because 3 times now I have woken up in a trance like state 3 am feeling numbness all over my body, when I tried moving my arms it felt like I was swimming and I heard that loud noise inside my ears and the louder it got the better the experience was.

I woke up feeling like a breeze blew all over my body. Last time it was accompanied by a very realistic yet disturbing and frightening dream and I consciously snapped out of the trance to check if my doors were locked lol. I am an athlete and a professional, never was the mumbo jumbo guy, these experiences were as real as the air I am breathing.

It sounds like you go out of body super easy and are indeed probably experiencing alternate realities and also dream state at the same time. Also do better at grounding and bubbling your body if you choose — that seems to help! I am in process that has seen countless undiagnosable medical issues my entire life.

The answer to those issues found me three years ago. With that energy signature it is allowed me to for timelines and as energy flows endlessly and timelessly throughout the Universe if you can see an energy signature within a person after a very short time you can see there truth in the past and have some knowledge towards their future that they may even not be aware of. The powerful vibrations that run through my body and have my entire life I now realize are spirits.

This has proved to record predictions that have now come to fruition. My question now is how does a psychic know their psychic? Is there anybody that can answer my question? Our chakra system and suric body is designed to be that. Now that said — yes we can all SING but maybe at very different levels and there are some that use that skill and hone it and present it and work it…and others just do it in the shower…if you get the drift.

I think it is great you have found yours and are honing it! After a very long time of thinking I feel I understand I really do like the idea of all of this and this all still happens to me in fact I read over everything again and pretty much all of these things happen to me. Thank you so much. This was so profound and helpful. Especially, the wanting to go back home part.

Thank you. You can either email me or depending on what you are addressing you can also book a session — all of that is on my site and available. I feel through the comments many are far behind on the spiritual awakening. I usually look up my numbers in sunsigns. Flu symptoms.

Channeling music. That is our mission to make non believers, believers so that all mankind is equal. And full of peace and all loving to one another. But I love to hear about others experiences. And my tongue looks horrid. Thank you for sharing. By the way my names Michael. And next year. Thanks for your opinion Michael — I respectfully disagree with a couple of statements however in that we are only responsible for our own unique and individual ascension and awakening, not for us to make non-believers a believer because everyone has free will to do this journey as they choose.

Juts got back into mediating and when i did it i reached this point where i my head started to have an intense tingle like how it use to do but this time was different. To me, it feels like my spirit had more of an experience then i did. Does that mean anything? I dont even know what to call or where to start, just please.

Again I say this so often — learn to help your self before yearning to work to help others, learn about your gifts for you first. What do you need to do to release any fear and beliefs that no longer serve you — clean your own container before you worry about helping another — it is not selfish it is critical for the energy exchange we have with others. I have been through every single one almost. A part of me is not sure about anything I see lights reflecting of off me and wierd Dreams. As long as lights every were sensitivity to everything. But I feel lost. Can you help me? I always suggest before worrying about helping others one needs to help themselves in terms of learning how to stay grounded and protected in their own auric field of energy and do your best to release all fear based belief systems.

This will ultimatley assist in releiving Ascension symptoms overall. There is a free meditation on my home page of my site to assist. Hello everyone does anyone ever get really anxious that that, i have to bite my mouth and my lips in the inside of my mouth is hurting.

And with my knuckles I have to bang the outside of my chin and it is so sore right now, it is an uncontrollable thing I have to do I just have to do it!! I can relate — I also have a ton of mouth issues — I feel like my fillings are hurting alot and when I get a check up all is fine. Same here. I would rather be blind to the world and go about my days as everone esles. It could be overwhelming. You obviously get to feel any way you choose but my take is that you signed up for this Earth at this very special time in a meat-body and that means we are here to DO something to assist in thei Ascension and it all begins with the individual.

That said, there is no right nor wrong on how to choose to traverse this life…. You know my name is Valerie and my birthday is on July 13th. Me too. Look up morgellions. This is what I thought was happening to me. Would much rather this. So alone.


There are a million sites with a ton of different DISeases out there — my take is do your best to take away the FEAR of any label — feel what is YOUR truth — do your dilligence with western medicine if you choose but try to find what truly resonates as your truth when it comes to your own individual body. It definitely is difficult to process. I was lucky to find someone whom has move through the process already. I try to understand. But at times hard to grasp. Many blessings and luck to you. I feel the same as you because I dont know what it means.

Because regardless if I choose to dismiss it or not, it is what it is. I felt like this too and on some days I feel like I wish it never started but even on my rough days I strive to see the beauty in this. I have felt crazy at times. All the number syncronicities , , I even woke up at a few times.

Then my body aches and I have these surges of energy that feel like electrical shocks. When I stay positive I can manifest very quickly. If I think it, its here. Just try to embrace it even on your down days. Its rough at times, trust me I know but knowledge is power! Dont freak out, dont try so hard to understand it. I have been seeing , , , and Crazy prophetic dreams and visions tbat are so real i dont to go back to reality. Whats happening is exactly what Jesus preached about the end of days.

Its okay. Weather people want to realize it or not we are in the middle of Gods war with Satan. So trust Jesus to save you, and ask Him what it all means for you specifically. Or simply trust your SELF that there are many benevolents there for you and thesse are simply messages of help. Ii have felt the same way quite often it can be overwhelming or scary even but it is also a gift that is beautiful and to be honest can be a fault depending on gow you focus your energies…focus yourself in a possitive direction and u will be just fine …dint feed into negitive energies or you will draw even more negitive energies..

I slewp. Do the work and the fear will go away. You can hold on to that fear and not ascend. As I have stated before everyone gets to do this their own way — that is part of the free will — there is no right or wrong, no get to make it or not, it is all seem and done through individual lenses of reality. That is amazing. I have waited so long because scared and belief system. Actually, I was terrified and zoned it out and I got zoned out. Now I except it and want it this time fully heart and soul and happening. We are ALL going through this but some feel it and experience it deeper and there is no special reason why.

Many are not even aware this is happening but it is not only on individual basis but global and cosmic as well. That is personal choice. These cycles of ascension are approximately 26, year cycles…. All of these things been happening but is heightened as of lately I have wild lucid dreams at one point I had a dream of owls that shape shifted to humans and woke up terrified at in the morning it was disturbing. Well i can tell you that i experience strangle tingling and muscle spasms all over my face. I hate to think weird but it feel like someone put a spell on me.

The tingling and jerks feel like im slowly losing weight. Idk what it is. I tell you once i smell a weird dead flesh smell while this happen. I have try to contact black magician to dertermine if someone have put a demon spell on me. My life is miserable im scared to go to sleep. Im always on my toes anybody can help me i would love it. I need help. Something pushed through me on and BOOM it went from these. But we signed up for this before coming. Email me teripatterson gmail. Ive been going through a rocky transition in life which started about a year ago, the craziest part is I had this deep craving to educate myself, I felt my inner self changing rapidly.

My interests, my senses my whole attitude on life. At times I felt crazy, like nothing made since.. It gets overwhelming sometimes. I definitely realize that I pick up on vibes instantly i feel what people are going thru. I can literally feel my energy drained around low vibrAtional people and feel my energy spike around high vibrAtional people.

Ive learned to cleanse myself try to sheild myself and stay positive to keep my balance. I just feel weird trying to explain to people im no longer as out going as I once was because I feel weird when i feel the energy shift and nobody else does.. It is all about doing more work on feelings of judgment and holding your own truths.

I am experiencing mozt of the symptoms given here by Suzanne. Thank you for this article. It is very helpful. Many blessings! WOW, so much of this has been happening to me. The strongest one of all though is the desire to go home. I find too that animals, birds, and insects, seem to be communicating with me. I hear their energies and I respond with thought. And yet my love and gratitude to Spirit has grown hugely. I am all of you. Anything right now will really assist. Many thanks Karina. I feel that not only have I changed mentally, emotionally and spiritually.

I feel like changing physically has been the most challenging. Teasing mean entities are always harassing me and trying to jump me. The want to destroy need in every way bit are more set on destroying my physical appearance.

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I have never felt so Incredibly insecure in all my life. M y body is totally different. I see a stranger staring back ate in the mirror. I can see it. I have also tried to commit suicide and I dont know what the future holds unless I get help. The pain is to great here.

But not all. Any healers who are kind enough to help or work out a plan of payment? First Brandie there is a ton of free info online and even on my site. Not even a healer for a discount price. Honor your body as it is the vehicle you create from and with. Do affirmations daily. Only focus on the positive.

Do your best to see yourself as love and light. Stop focusing on the negative because you are the one drawing it in and if you believe that dark entities are harming you then they will. Command light around you and they will no longer be there…it is all about raising your vibration.

And BTW, if you DO choose to leave planet suicide all of this fear and angst will go right along with you I hope you realize and you will karmically still need to resolve what you do not do on this plane of existence. So in my opinion, it behooves you to do the work now, here, and find love and joy as it is your birthright.

This world is a beautiful place is you choose to see it that way. No one can take that from you and no one can do it FOR you. Do you guys think the other side needs unblocking? Dear Sister, There is no evil, demons, or dark spirits. Darkness is only the absence of light. Go into a dark room and turn on the light there is no battle darkness is transmuted by the light. There is no power on this Earth stronger than you as you are God creating your own reality.

What you see and feel is you protecting out your fear. Darkness, Evil, Demons are all mans projected fear. Let go of fear, judgment, anxiety, blame guilt, fear is only a thought and I thought can be changed. Change the way you look at things and the the things you look at will change. This is what I have been looking for yet I did not know I was looking for it until this morning. The angels have been trying to get my attention for a while but yet I guess for the urgency now they really need my attention.

The most holy loving things is I know it is happening! That is number one reason for me to go to church if they hear the Angels Sing! And they sing beautifully I suggest everyone go to church the right Church of singing and all of that and listen to the angels. I am learning the Angels tell you what church to go to so they can have a good time! What does this mean? Lots of times it is just spirit saying hello.

I am having problems in a different way and I keep seeing the numbers …I keep calculating random numbers like bus 54 and making it 9 in my head…I feel like I am empty and my spirit animal, wolf. Is howling for me to come to it. I think you are doing the work of whats next in terms of gratifying NATURE and making sure to connect and respect Gaia — but make sure you are personally and individually staying protected, grounded and bubbled so that you do not empath others and also the collective sadness. And find JOY whenever and however possible helps overall! With this look of wonder?

Simple story be extremely rewarding for me. That we are collectively in debt for trillions of dollars which we borrowed from a relative handful of people who are actually loaning us our money which we print and then put in their banks so that they, in their passionate democratic love for usury, could extend it to us in loans charging us far more interest than what they pay us to allegedly save and which we will never be able to repay in this or any other lifetime. The former allegedly free market which produced food clothing and shelter for all who could afford it and told the rest to drop dead has transformed into an allegedly free market which produces debt and credit with which to purchase food clothing and shelter and this has led to quite a few doing better than ever and a greater than ever crowd being told to drop dead.

And without floating on an ocean of debt which could become a desert at any moment, many in the servant-to-the-rich crowd doing quite well could wind up sleeping in their cars or under a bridge at the next upheaval in the market based on prayer, drugs and hallucination in defiance of the substance some still call material reality. Even millions of dollars can sound fictional to many of us, while billions are truly science fiction. But trillions? That means our debt is two and a quarter times more than what we produce. Even given that almost all of us are and have been in debt most of our lives, the fact is that all of us are in greater debt than we have ever been before, have less to show for it, and pay a far heavier price on it than we ever did in the past.

We carry more than billion dollars in credit card debt as a nation and among our most comfortable people are those of us dining on steak and salmon with an actual rice and beans budget but able to use our plastic to pay dollars even if we only have 17 in cash. But going from gourmet foods to burgers and fries may lower quality but does sustain life. Our upper middle class will suffer, for sure, but our majority will suffer even more if-when the balloon bursts or the shit hits the fan, depending on vernacular used which also depends on how much debt we are carrying.

The last estimate of our homeless population was more than half a million, a truly disgraceful figure among a population owing trillions in debt for war and pet care while reducing millions of its citizens to poverty and more than half a million to living in the street. Do we need public banks, employee owned and democratically operated businesses, a dollar free electoral system and conversation with our fellow humans as opposed to mass murdering them every time there is an alleged disagreement among our rulers and thus our responsibility to kill and die for them?

Does a snake have wings? Obviously, we owe far too much and get far too little for it and the only way to end that system is to transform it to one that puts us, collectively, before only some of us, individually. Which means we not only need to pay attention to what the government of a minority of the people is doing to us but change it to a government of the majority, which it has never been in our history, was never designed to be in its origins, but needs to become if any of us are to have a future as a race, the only human one to have ever existed even if seemingly more divided than ever at the moment.

But the majority needs to move with all deliberate speed to transform a system and not just its figureheads. Voting for any more of them amounts to something far worse than putting teeth under a pillow in hopes of finding food, clothing and shelter when you wake. About the Author Frank Scott is founding editor of legalienate. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment.

You choose to live your losses as passages to anger, blame, hatred, depression and resentment, or you choose to let these losses be passages to something new, something wider, and deeper. Henri Nouwen A couple is a conspiracy in search of a crime. Sex is often the closest they van get.

Adam Philips There will be little rubs and disappointments everywhere, and we are all apt to expect too much; but then, if one scheme of happiness fails, human nature turns to another; if the first calculation is wrong, we make a second better: we find comfort somewhere. Jane Austen Dreams are the touchstones of our character. Henry David Thoreau Cats can work out mathematically the exact place to sit that will cause most inconvenience. Pam Brown I am an excitable person who only understands life lyrically, musically, in whom feelings are much stronger as reason. I am so thirsty for the marvelous that only the marvelous has power over me.

Anything I can not transform into something marvelous, I let go. Reality doesnt impress me. I only believe in intoxication, in ecstasy, and when ordinary life shackles me, I escape, one way or another. No more walls. Anais Nin It is difficult for some people to accept that love is a choice. This seems to run counter to the generally accepted theory of romantic love which expounds that love is inborn and as such requires no more than to accept it.

Leo Buscaglia Love is life. And if you miss love, you miss life. Leo Buscaglia For when a woman is left too much alone, sooner or later she begins to think; and no man knows what then she may discover. Edwin Robinson About the only time losing is more fun than winning is when youre fighting temptation. Tom Wilson Every woman needs one man in her life who is strong and responsible. Given this security, she can proceed to do what she really wants to do-fall in love with men who are weak and irresponsible.

Richard Needham Love is friendship that has caught fire. It is quiet understanding, mutual confidence, sharing and forgiving. It is loyalty through good and bad times. It settles for less than perfection and makes allowances for human weaknesses. Love is content with the present, it hopes for the future, and it does not brood over the past. Its the day-in and day-out chronicle of irritations, problems, compromises, small disappointments, big victories and working toward common goals.

If you have love in your life, it can make up for a great many things that are missing. If you dont have love in your life, no matter what else there is, its not enough. Ann Landers To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering one must not love. But then one suffers from not loving. Therefore, to love is to suffer; not to love is to suffer; to suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love. To be happy, then, is to suffer, but suffering makes one unhappy. Therefore, to be happy one must love or love to suffer or suffer from too much happiness. Woody Allen A soulmate is someone who has locks that fit our keys, and keys to fit our locks.

When we feel safe enough to open the locks, our truest selves step out and we can be completely and honestly who we are; we can be loved for who we are and not for who were pretending to be. Each unveils the best part of the other. No matter what else goes wrong around us, with that one person were safe in our own paradise. Our soulmate is someone who shares our deepest longings, our sense of direction.

When were two balloons, and together our direction is up, chances are weve found the right person. Our soulmate is the one who makes life come to life. Richard David Bach A man reserves his true and deepest love not for the species of woman in whose company he finds himself electrified and enkindled, but for that one in whose company he may feel tenderly drowsy. George Jean Nathan When you long with all your heart for someone to love you, a madness grows there that shakes all sense from the trees and the water and the earth.

And nothing lives for you, except the long deep bitter want. And this is what everyone feels from birth to death. Denton Welch Being with the right person is caring for another physically, mentally and spiritually. It is caring for anothers soul. As the relationship grows deeper over the years each kiss is still as new and exciting as the first, each embrace is a song of ever-deepening love, and each night becomes a celebration of unity and fulfilment. Robert Scheid Women still remember the first kiss after men have forgotten the last.

Remy de Gourmont The most human thing we have to do in life is is to learn to speak our honest convictions and feelings and live with the consequences. This is the first requirement of love, and it makes us vulnerable to other people who may ridicule us. But our vulnerability is the only thing we can give to other people. Leo Buscaglia Now if you are going to win any battle you have to do one thing. You have to make the mind run the body. Never let the body tell the mind what to do. The body will always give up. It is always tired in the morning, noon, and night. But the body is never tired if the mind is not tired.

George Patton Its the people you are close to, the ones who love you, the ones who have seen your heart, who have touched your soul — to them, it is obvious that something is wrong or missing. Your heart and soul are missing. They feel it. It hurts them. It kills them. Elizabeth Wurtzel There is no difficulty that enough love will not conquer; no disease that enough love will not heal; no door that enough love will not open; no gulf that enough love will not bridge; no wall that enough love will not throw down; no sin that enough love will not redeem.

It makes no difference how deeply seated may be the trouble; how hopeless the outlook; how muddled the tangle; how great the mistake. A sufficient realization of love will dissolve it all. If only you could love enough you would be the happiest and most powerful being in the world. Emmet Fox You know what makes my problems bigger then everyone elses? Theyre mine. Ally McBeal We need others. We need others to love and we need to be loved by them. There is no doubt that without it, we too, like the infant left alone, would cease to grow, cease to develop, choose madness and even death.

Leo Buscaglia So many people walk around with a meaningless life. They seem half-asleep, even when theyre busy doing things they think are important. This is because theyre chasing the wrong things. The way you get meaning into your life is to devote yourself to loving others, devote yourself to your community around you, and devote yourself to creating something that gives you purpose and meaning. Morrie Schwartz The world needs anger. The world often continues to allow evil because it isnt angry enough.

Bede Jarrett For a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin — real life. But there was always some obstacle in the way. Something to be got through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life. Alfred DSouza Pleasure is the flower that passes; remembrance, the lasting perfume. Jean de Boufflers What is a kiss? Why this, as some approve: The sure, sweet cement, glue, and lime of love.

Robert Herrick Nothing is more memorable than a smell. One scent can be unexpected, momentary and fleeting, yet conjure up a childhood summer beside a lake in the mountains; another, a moonlit beach; a third, a family dinner of pot roast and sweet potatoes during a myrtle-mad August in a Midwestern town. Smells detonate softly in our memory like poignant land mines hidden under the weedy mass of years. Hit a tripwire of smell and memories explode all at once.

A complex vision leaps out of the undergrowth. Diane Ackerman Hold on to your dreams for they are, in a sense, the stuff of which reality is made. It is through our dreams that we maintain the possibility of a better, more meaningful life. Leo Buscaglia If we would only give, just once, the same amount of reflection to what we want to get out of life that we give to the question of what to do with a two weeks vacation, we would be startled at our false standards and the aimless procession of our busy days.

Dorothy Canfield Fisher The difference between false memories and true ones is the same as for jewels: it is always the false ones that look the most real, the most brilliant. Salvador Dali I dont know what it is about the open road that makes it so appealing. Maybe its because when youre headed somewhere, you dont have to be where youve already been.

Steve Hofstetter Even a happy life cannot be without a measure of darkness, and the word happy would lose its meaning if it were not balanced by sadness. It is far better take things as they come along with patience and equanimity. Carl Jung Sex appeal is fifty percent what youve got and fifty percent what people think youve got. Sophia Loren Beauty is unbearable, drives us to despair, offering us for a minute the glimpse of an eternity that we should like to stretch out over the whole of time. Albert Camus Summer is the time when one sheds ones tensions with ones clothes, and the right kind of day is jeweled balm for the battered spirit.

A few of those days and you can become drunk with the belief that alls right with the world. Ada Louise Huxtable You lose sight of things… and when you travel, everything balances out. Daranna Gidel Make the most of yourself, for that is all there is of you. Ralph Waldo Emerson All journeys have secret destinations of which the traveler is unaware.

Martin Buber I love you, not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you. Not only for what you have made of yourself, but for what you are making of me. I love you for the part of me that you bring out. I love you for putting your hand into my heaped-up heart and passing over all the foolish, weak things that you cant help dimly seeing there. And for drawing out into the light all the beautiful belongings that no one else had looked quite far enough to find.

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I love you because you are helping me to make of the lumber of my life, not a tavern but a temple. Out of the works of my every day, not a reproach but a song. Cecelia Reed Our truest life is when we are in dreams awake. Henry David Thoreau A man falls in love through his eyes, a woman through her ears. Woodrow Wyatt No kind action ever stops with itself. One kind action leads to another. Good example is followed. A single act of kindness throws out roots in all directions, and the roots spring up and make new trees.

The greatest work that kindness does to others is that it makes them kind themselves. Amelia Earhart The moment when you first wake up in the morning is the most wonderful of the twenty-four hours. No matter how weary or dreary you may feel, you possess the certainty that, during the day that lies before you, absolutely anything may happen.

And the fact that it practically always doesnt, matters not a jot. The possibility is always there. Monica Baldwin One wanders through life as if wandering through a field in the dark of night, wearing a blindfold and very heavy shoes, with a poisonous toad waiting patiently beneath a clump of weeds, knowing full well that eventually you will step on him.

Lemony Snicket Sports do not build character. They reveal it. Laing I was trying to daydream, but my mind kept wandering. Steven Wright Charm is the quality in others that makes us more satisfied with ourselves. Albert Einstein Love is often gentle, desire always a rage. Mignon McLaughlin You can kiss your family and friends good-bye and put miles between you, but at the same time you carry them with you in your heart, your mind, your stomach, because you do not just live in a world but a world lives in you. Frederick Buechner If you smile when no one else is around, you really mean it.

Andy Rooney Every day we slaughter our finest impulses. That is why we get a heart-ache when we read those lines written by the hand of a master and recognize them as our own, as the tender shoots which we stifled because we lacked the faith to believe in our own powers, our own criterion of truth and beauty.

Every man, when he gets quiet, when he becomes desperately honest with himself, is capable of uttering profound truths. We all derive from the same source. There is no mystery about the origin of things. We are all part of creation, all kings, all poets, all musicians; we have only to open up, to discover what is already there. Henry Miller Its at night, when perhaps we should be dreaming, that the mind is most clear, that we are most able to hold all our life in the palm of our skull.

I dont know if anyone has ever pointed out that great attraction of insomnia before, but it is so; the night seems to release a little more of our vast backward inheritance of instincts and feelings; as with the dawn, a little honey is allowed to ooze between the lips of the sandwich, a little of the stuff of dreams to drip into the waking mind. Brian Aldiss What we call the secret of happiness is no more a secret than our willingness to choose life.

Leo Buscaglia Womans influence is powerful, especially when she wants something. Josh Billings Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind dont matter and those who matter dont mind.

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Seuss The trouble with resisting temptation is it may never come your way again. Kormans Law Summer is the time when one sheds ones tensions with ones clothes, and the right kind of day is jeweled balm for the battered spirit. Oscar Wilde Love is a temporary madness, it erupts like volcanoes and then subsides. And when it subsides, you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part.

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Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion, it is not the desire to mate every second minute of the day, it is not lying awake at night imagining that he is kissing every cranny of your body. David T. Wolf Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and it may be necessary from time to time to give a stupid or misinformed beholder a black eye. Miss Piggy And above all, watch with glittering eyes the whole world around you because the greatest secrets are always hidden in the most unlikely places. Roald Dahl And I know for sure, with an absolute certainty, that this is rock bottom, this is what the worst possible thing feels like.

It is not some grand, wretched emotional breakdown. It is, in fact, so very mundane: rock bottom is an inability to cope with the commonplace that is so extreme it makes even the grandest and loveliest things unbearable. Rock bottom is feeling that the only thing that matters in all of life is the one bad moment. Rock bottom is everything out of focus. Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness.

Women know better. Candace Bushnell Love is an untamed force. When we try to control it, it destroys us. When we try to imprison it, it enslaves us. When we try to understand it, it leaves us feeling lost and confused. They can come back to you, even at unlikely times. Mitch Albom She was tired of hugging pillows, counting on blankets for warmth, and reliving romantic moments only in her dreams.

She was tired of hoping that every day would hurry so she could get on to the next. Hoping that it would be a better day, an easier day. But it never was. Worked, paid the bills, and went to bed but never slept. Each morning the weight on her shoulders got heavier and heavier and each morning she wished for night to fall quickly so she could return to her bed to hug her pillows and wrap herself in the warmth of her blankets. Elizabeth Wurtzel Man may have discovered fire, but women discovered how to play with it. The bad things are still out there. The nightmares still walking.

When we hold each other we feel not safe, but better. This means independence from attachments, from results, from opinions, and from expectations. Breaking attachments leads to freedom, but breaking attachments does not mean abandoning a loving and meaningful relationship, a relationship that nourrishes your soul. It means ending dependency on any person or thing. Love is never a dependency. Elizabeth Wurtzel I need the thing that happens when your brain shuts off and your heart turns on.

Elizabeth Wurtzel Lost love is still love. Mitch Albom There are two basic motivating forces: fear and love. When we are afraid, we pull back from life. When we are in love, we open to all that life has to offer with passion, excitement, and acceptance. We need to learn to love ourselves first, in all our glory and our imperfections. If we cannot love ourselves, we cannot fully open to our ability to love others or our potential to create. Evolution and all hopes for a better world rest in the fearlessness and open-hearted vision of people who embrace life.

John Lennon Life, he realized, was much like a song. People think that in falling in love they make themselves whole? The platonic union of souls? I think otherwise. And the love fractures you. Philip Roth Your face is true and your hair is perfect and I love you. You make boats in my dreams and you speak without words and I love you. Your fears unnerve me and your questions amuse me and I love you. I say I love you and love you and love you until the words become the constant song of your voice in my head and the original ache of memory in my soul.

Do you believe me? Try harder. Do you believe me now? Rob Brezsny Some people are settling down, some people are settling and some people refuse to settle for anything less than butterflies. It is our misfortune that for most of us that clear-eyed vision, that true instinct for what is beautiful and awe-inspiring, is dimmed and even lost before we reach adulthood. Rachel Carson Laugh, even when you feel too sick or too worn out or tired.

Sing, even when people stare at you and tell you your voice is crappy. Trust, even when your heart begs you not to. Twirl, even when your mind makes no sense of what you see. Frolick, even when you are made fun of. Kiss, even when others are watching. And, always, remember, even when the memories pinch your heart. Because the pain of all your experience is what makes you the person you are now. And without your experience you are an empty page, a blank notebook, a missing lyric.

What makes you brave is your willingness to live through your terrible life and hold your head up high the next day. Because you are stronger now, after all the crap has happened, than you ever were back before it started. Alysha Speer Some women choose to follow men, and some women choose to follow their dreams. Lady Gaga There are so many fragile things, after all. People break so easily, and so do dreams and hearts.

Never Been Kissed No relationship is perfect, ever. There are always some ways you have to bend, to compromise, to give something up in order to gain something greater. The love we have for each other is bigger than these small differences. Love can make up for a lot. You expect the unexpected, you believe in magic, in fairy tales, and in possibilities. Cecelia Ahern The most important thing in life is your family. Sex and the city Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could; some blunders and absurdities have crept in; forget them as soon as you can.

Tomorrow is a new day; you shall begin it serenely and with too high a spirit to be encumbered with your old nonsense. Ralph Waldo Emerson When you are loved, you can do anything in creation.

Love itself became the object of her love. She loved herself in love, she loved loving love, as love loves loving, and was able, in that way, to reconcile herself with a world that fell so short of what she would have hoped for. It was not the world that was the great and saving lie, but her willingness to make it beautiful and fair, to live a once-removed life, in a world once-removed from the one in which everyone else seemed to exist.

Jonathan Safran Foer Life is too important to be taken seriously. Oscar Wilde And suddenly I got what the big deal was about kissing. How someone could suck on your bottom lip and make you come completely undone. That someone stroking the hair back from your face could make you swoon and someone sliding his hands underneath your top could make you feel wanted for the first time in your life.

Sarra Manning When I am tired, it is easy to believe that my exhaustion is the reason I am depressed and lonely and uninspired. But when I am well-rested, I can realize that these negative feelings are not a result of too little sleep. They are a result of my being a miserable, hopeless, misanthropic wretch.

Life is just supposed to make you feel. No school goals, personal goals, family goals. Your only objective each day should be to inhale and exhale for sixteen hours before you go to bed again. If you start achieving goals, you might start to feel a sense of excitement, then you might want to set another goal, and then your miserable mornings are through.

To maintain your misery, the idea of crossing off your goals should never cross your mind. John Bytheway Our life is composed greatly from dreams, from the unconscious, and they must be brought into connection with action. They must be woven together. Anais Nin But love is always new. Regardless of whether we love once, twice, or a dozen times in our life, we always face a brand-new situation. Love can consign us to hell or to paradise, but it always takes us somewhere. We simply have to accept it, because it is what nourishes our existence.

We have to take love where we find it, even if that means hours, days, weeks of disappointment and sadness. Paulo Coelho The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well. Ralph Waldo Emerson Sometimes I think the surest sign that intelligent life exists elsewhere in the universe is that none of it has tried to contact us. Love is a feeling, the deepest and sweetest of all. It is a blessing that should be counted every day. It is nourishment for the soul.

Love is a heart filled with affection for the most important person in your life. Love is looking at the special someone who makes your world go around and absolutely loving what you see. Love is an invaluable bond that enriches every good thing in life. It gives each hug a tenderness, each heart a happiness, each spirit a steady lift. Love is an invisible connection that is exquisitely felt by those who know the joy, feel the warmth, share the sweetness, and celebrate the gift. And you know, for the first time, for the very first time, that there will now be a before and an after, a was and a will be.

And that you will never again quite be the same person you were. Serious kissing. I love you straightforwardly, without complexities or pride; so I love you because I know no other way than this: where I does not exist, nor you, so close that your hand on my chest is my hand, so close that your eyes close as I fall asleep. It changes the relationship of two people much more strongly than even the final surrender; because this kiss already has within it that surrender.

That event predictably leads to the magical moment of their first kiss. I fall ALL the time. You know who comes and gets me? The bouncer. But chemistry, listen to me, you got to be careful. Or those menus without the prices. Mystery and intrigue are gonna cost you. All big men are dreamers. Some of us let these dreams die, but others nourish and protect them; nurse them through bad days till they bring them to the sunshine and light which comes always to those who sincerely hope that their dreams will come true.

New wounds, which are so horribly painful, or old wounds, which should have healed years ago, and never did? Maybe our old wounds teach us something. They teach us lessons about what to avoid in the future. Some things we just have to learn over and over and over again.

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It lies in all of us. Sleeping, waiting and though unwanted, unbidden, it will stir, open its jaws and howl. It speaks to us, guides us. Passion rules us all. And we obey. What other choice do we have? Passion is the source of our finest moments. The joy of love, the clarity of hatred, the ecstasy of grief. It hurts sometimes more than we can bear. But we would be hollow. Empty rooms, shuttered and dank. At some point, we all have to choose. Do we fall back on what we know? Or, do we step forward, to something new? Our history is what shapes us, what guides us. Our history resurfaces.

Time, after time, after time. So we have to remember. The shoe fits Cinderella. The frog turns into a prince. Sleeping Beauty is awakened with a kiss. Once upon a time. And then they lived happily every after. Fairy tales. The stuff of dreams. The ones that begin with dark and stormy nights and end in the unspeakable. Happily ever after. The stories we tell are the stuff of dreams.

Reality is much stormier. Much murkier. Much scarier. What if I am stuck down here for good? They connect us, even after it seems like the ties should be broken. Some bonds defy distance, and time, and logic. Because some ties are simply… meant to be. The first kiss is the one that you suffer the consequences of.

It was as if I had been playing Russian roulette and finally got the cylinder with the bullet in it. Funny thing is, once we grow up, learn our words, and really start talking, the harder it becomes to know what to say. Some things are more than what you say. Some things, you keep to yourself. And not too often, but every now and then… some things simply speak for themselves. But the thing that makes us human… is what we can control. After the storm, after the rush, after the heat of the moment has passed. We can try to let go of what was. If she never takes off her high-heeled shoes, how will she ever know how far she could walk or how fast she could run?

I mean pure psychedelic inebriation. Not just lustful petting but transcendental metamorphosis when you became aware that the greatness of this being was breathing into you. Licking the sides and corners of your mouth, like sealing a thousand fleshy envelopes filled with the essence of your passionate being and then opened by the same mouth and delivered back to you, over and over again — the first kiss of the rest of your life. And everything that happens in between, we owe it to ourselves to find a little company. We need help. We need support. So instead, we choose love, we choose life, and for a moment, we feel just a little bit less alone.

Let me learn from you, love you, bless you before you depart. Let me not pass you by in quest of some rare and perfect tomorrow. Let me hold you while I may, for it may not always be so.