When there is a possible cause, there is no coincidence anymore. The belief that coincidence means two or more events coming together in a surprising, unexpected way without an obvious causal explanation comes from the writings of one man, Sir Thomas Browne in the s. Coincidence means happening at the same time. Coincidence is everywhere. Every time you go to the shopping mall, there are shoppers there, each with his own cause, shopping with every other shopper.
Even when something seems to be a shared cause, e. Thanks for referring to the origin of the word "coincidence". Perhaps you will find this article of interest:. Does Bernard Beitman MD think that coincidences are similarities? Surely, to believe that coincidences are similarities suggests escape?
Yes, reaction occurs at the same time as something that develops - but, in humanity, neither reaction or stimuli are necessarily natural events. There is, most likely, a source that preceded both events. If the reaction is real and the stimulus is true, then coincidences cannot be similarities. When I talk about how incredibly luck we are to be alive, all the billions or more things that just happened to happen for us to exist.
People bring up God. As an Atheist, I debate them. And they bring up the fact that all those random things had to happen and to do so, is not possible. So I ask if they are a golfer, if they are, I say, what is the chance that that golf ball will land on any certain blade of grass.
They say, very very remote. And I say exactly, but it has to land somewhere doesn't it? As much as they hate to admit it, it makes sense.
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If you don't have a way to convey randomness to someone, it normally goes right over their heads. The entire question of why we live in a Universe that has certain laws of physics allowing life does require a science response. However that very response is itself metaphysical and can never be proven. That is, there are branching realities or multiverses. I happen to believe we are a simulation of some kind, a drama. Allen watts preferred to believe in the world being drama! You are a tiny component of its expressions.
The nature or full extent of nature's expressions including consequences cannot, except in the most gross incidences, ever be perceived. I liked your article. If people take you at your words than you are a giant. If they choose to take you at their interpretation of your words then they contort your views and misunderstand what you are trying to convey. You ignored the deterministic conception of coincidences. Everything that happens, including coincidences, ultimately happens because the initial conditions of the cosmos pre-determined them to happen.
In other words, coincidences have nothing to do with you, because the cosmological constants guaranteed that they would happen. Perhaps your third possibility is another way of saying God. The two ideas have in common being First Causes. Predetermined and Fate also are ways of describing how God and the Cosmological Constants resemble each other. If you are assuming a deistic conception of God, then the cosmological constants being the observable manifestation of God's will acting on us and our universe makes perfect sense.
If you are assuming a pantheistic God, then it makes more sense to say that the cosmological constants are themselves properties of God. However, a traditionally theistic God who acts on the world through miracles seems to make invoking the cosmological constants redundant, and vice versa. You can see conscious awareness as a machine, one thing creates yet another. I have always thought in one Universe all things in some way must be connected.
The fact we are not able to trace the path doesn't mean its all on the spot coincidence. The Universe may have had initial conditions. If they were any different than what you experience now might never be or the past could never have been. This was a very interesting read on coincidence. I never really looked at coincidence as being not really a coincidence.
If God caused it to happen, therefore that being the known cause, it really was not a coincidence because of the "known" cause is a very interesting way to look at it. We discussed something similar in our class on Personality when discussing dreams. If one dreams of a goat then sees a goat the next day, that really is not a coincidence nor is it a sign related to dreaming of the goat.
Some random occurrence was the cause of us seeing a goat. Great read. Sherri, I can say some of these things make my hair stand on end. Example, my mother now deceased, never used the phrase, " carrying coal to Newport" I a few days before had read this in a novel I was reading and it was rather stuck in my head. I had a spontaneous conversation with her and she blurred out, " and I'm not carrying coal to Newport.
But, she did. Odd, maybe a bit creepy, but it happened. I have always felt realty is NOT what we think it is. It is something very strange indeed. Yes, maybe it is not related to coincidences, maybe it is, but telepathy at least is for sure a thing, though hard to prove. Not only have I had people take the words out of my head, but I have also heard the guys next to me, having a totally different conversation, hook on to the words and concepts I was thinking about in mine and take them out into their own unrelated conversation I came across this article while reflecting on considences and probabilities.
My niece was recently killed in a tragic car accident and I started to reflect on some of the observations I made that spoke to me personally. Mine are that my nice was killed by a DUI driver born in the same state of the foreign country I was born in, the driver was driving the same make of car I drive, and the accident happened in front of one of the national company stores that I work for. The accident happened 4 days before my birthday. If someone can calculate the probabilities of what I just mentioned I would love to know the figures.
Coincidence studies needs to develop ways to estimate the probability in this event. Your 10 yo son response is an example of simulpathity--experiencing the pain of another usually a loved one, at a distance. That would be separate from the other facts which require the statistical analysis. What is your feeling about your involvement here? I feel like I should take some kind of lesson from this tragedy.
That I am involved to the extent that I have to make some changes in my life to love more, love deeper, connect with my loved ones more often and do the things that my niece inspired me to do through some of her generous actions in her life. It seems to me some things seem to just appear like a projection of cumulative thoughts we have.
Of course science will reject that mind is that powerful or could create objective reality. I have to say, science is strung out on mathematics because its been so predictive and successful in describing physics. But, we know its hard to imagine a consciousness strung out of physical laws and nothing more. There have been some very strange things that have happened to me. One took place on November 17 , the last day my Mother was well.
I got a strange shiver when she had said a few days before she should see me. I had been busy at work. At noon I was just gold bricking at a store and suddenly a voice said, you are needed, go now to your mother. I was shocked, speeded out and she was well. I asked if she wanted to go to lunch. She did and she suddenly before drinking her coffee had a bleed in her brain. She was having a major stroke. If I had not been there, she would have died. You cannot tell me this was imagination or coincidence. Your intuition is exactly right!
Feeling the pain of a loved one at a distance is called simulpathity. The amazing addition of your story is that you somehow anticipated the bleed before it happened. There are rare stories of precognitions that actually change the course of events. First, from a literal standpoint, everything does happen for a reason. There is a cause and effect, clearly seen in natural law. Sometimes it is pure chance, like when a person falls off a roof accidental or someone contracts an infectious disease medical. They arise out of evil impulses fed by such sins as out-of-control anger, arrogance, passion, pride, and prejudice.
It is not a quotation from the Bible, although some people think it is. God works within His people and their circumstances to bring good out of even evil. There are many things that do happen by random chance, real unforeseen, and unplanned accidents or incidents! Both attitudes were prideful rather than faithful pursuits! We will discuss this point a little more in a follow-up article. I have come to believe that humility is the doorway to God, while arrogance or excessive pride is a trap door through which we fall away from God!
As is often visualized, Satan fell from Heaven to Hell because of his innate pride. Though millions believe this, I do not think it is true. Trying to bring sense and order to random suffering and injustice is like expecting to see a Rembrandt or Monet in a pool of retch, another inevitable human byproduct. This primal urge to find meaning in everything is grounded in an ungodly appetite to control everything. Consequently, accepting the randomness and injustice of life is part of accepting God. Do you know how that sounds to someone who has seen countless, innocent children dealing with the terrible fall out and aftermath of sexual abuse?
That God is a false God. Stuff happens. People make bad choices that hurt others. God is not pulling the switch on everything. He is not the master of circumstance. It is to help you cope with them. His power is most strongly felt not in creating the massive crystal chandelier of our existence or even suspending it, but in restoring it when we or others have shattered it into a million pieces. He does not conduct the orchestra of life. He gives us earplugs to alleviate the noise and clatter of a symphony run amuck.
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He is the humble and helpful janitor, who faithfully arrives on the scene to help you clean them up. God does not cause or will suffering but uses it as a venue for communion with mortals. Random, unwarranted suffering is simply part of mortality, an inevitable byproduct of agency. Yes, you can learn from suffering. In fact, you will learn from suffering. Teach them what it means to persevere. Teach them what it really means to have hope.
Teach them, by example, that you can be happy in suffering. Teach them how to love. I know both how to be abased, and I know how to abound: everywhere and in all things I am instructed both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need. I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.
Being grounded in Christ simply means living his mandate to love others. Love your way out of the storm. Love others. Stop thinking about yourself and your problems. As I have said repeatedly, if you live your life with love, you live your life with God, for God is love. This is how you walk with God daily. This is how you find his presence in his seeming absence.
This walk with God is the stabilizing factor of life. No, not everything happens for a reason. But your suffering can give you reason to live, to keep trying, to teach others, and to be an instrument in the hands of God to help bring his presence back into the world … for you and for all those around you!
Have you ever found yourself, in the midst of unimaginable grief, pain, heartache or despair, wondering how you are going to make it through another day? Wondering where your next breath is going to come from? Your world has crumbled beneath you and you are left feeling shattered, empty and hopeless.
The more you stew about a possible reason for your pain, the angrier you become. You reach for answers but none come. I spent years searching for answers, trying to find reasons that would bring an end to my pain. I thought that if I could find the cause, I could treat the condition. But what I found through years of searching, experiencing and living is that often there is no reason for why tragedy has occurred. Sometimes bad things happen for no reason other than we are human beings having a human experience. Pain, heartache, grief, loss, disease and death are inevitable parts of the human experience.
Human beings seem to have an innate sense of entitlement. We think that we are owed a pain-free existence.
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